I felt beyond "used." I had to give plasma so we could go on this crappy outing and then I got sick so he proceeded to drink all the beer! ) I was very naive and I felt so embarrassed for him, that he thought that this was even remotely close to acceptable human behavior, that I downplayed the whole event and tried to pretend it had never happened. When I asked what the h--- he meant, he replied that in India, the women do all the cleaning, so I'd better get started. I did a summer internship at a museum years ago when I was in college.
We talk about how most of her friends are guys and most of mine are girls. The 'crew' turns out to be another guy and 2 dogs...
Finding me “a fascinating, beautiful woman,” he offered to fly to L. I was sweating through my date-wear: off-white silk lace camisole, black pants, low heels. My freshly blow-dried hair was damp and losing volume, quickly. All I wanted to do was go home, tear my clothes off, turn on the AC and climb into cotton jammies. I’d be on the 10 in late afternoon traffic either way. I took a minute and replied, “I imagine you’ll be closer to 6.” His next two texts: “No stress.” “I’ll call you soon.” More L.
Men seem to care only about how women look and women about men with money. But really, he said, the trip would be all about finally meeting me. Our date would now be “around .” “I’ll call you in 20 minutes.” Ruh-roh. At that point, I was in Mid-Wilshire, halfway between Venice and downtown in 93-degree heat. to see me, so I thought I’d be open and extend myself by offering to meet downtown. He texted back at about to say, “I’ll get to Venice.” Right.
I was so shocked by all this all I could do was sit frozen and hope it was a bad dream.
I couldn't get up and leave because I was hooked to an IV!